When Things Break, Listen Closer

At Infinity Equine, we believe that horses teach us more than how to ride—they teach us how to listen. Not just to them, but to ourselves, and sometimes, to something even bigger.

Recently, after only seven rides, a brand new pair of tall boots broke. Disappointing? Absolutely. But what started as a frustrating moment turned into a valuable reminder: sometimes the tools we think we need aren’t the ones that actually serve us best.

I reached for my old, worn-in half chaps—faded and familiar. That ride, surprisingly, was one of the best I’ve had in months. Comfortable gear. A quiet mind. Trust in my own instincts.

It reminded me of something we see often in our students and riders at Infinity: the pressure to do what’s “popular” or look a certain way in the saddle can cloud what really matters—feel, connection, and presence.

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A Different Kind of Message

It would’ve been easy to see the broken boots as a setback or a sign to quit. But the real message was different:

Keep going. But do it honestly. Do it well. Do it with what truly works for you.

This lesson isn’t just for the saddle. It’s for life, and it’s one we try to instill in every student here at Infinity. Growth doesn’t always look shiny. Progress isn’t always measured in show results. And the best equipment? Often the kind that’s been with you through the journey.

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Be Honest With the Process

One of our favorite songs that speaks to this theme is “Honest” by Leanna Crawford. It’s a beautiful reminder that you don’t need to hide where you’re at to be on the right path:

“You don’t have to hide your scars.

You don’t have to fake the part.

You can be honest.”

 Watch it here on YouTube

At Infinity Equine, we encourage riders to come as they are—ready to learn, ready to grow, and ready to embrace the unexpected lessons along the way.

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Final Thought

Sometimes, growth shows up in a broken zipper and an unexpected best ride.

Sometimes, listening closely means recognizing that setbacks are actually redirections.

We’re here to support riders not just in learning how to ride, but in learning to trust themselves—even when things don’t go to plan.

If you’re looking for a program that values horsemanship, honesty, and progress over perfection, we’d love to welcome you.